Bridal style for lesbian couples is a potential minefield. Given that same-sex marriage was only legalised at in 2014 in England and Wales, lesbian bridal fashion is still very much a work in progress. But that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. When you are planning a same sex wedding, you can create your own traditions and stamp your own unique style on the big day.
However, that doesn’t mean that anything goes. Here are a few dos and don’ts for brides and their brides…
DO…show your pride with a rainbow motif
It wasn’t too long ago that same-sex marriage was illegal in the UK, but thankfully LGBTQ rights have come a long way since then. Your wedding day is the perfect opportunity to show some love for the pride movement. This could be something subtle such as a sparkly brooch or a clutch of colourful ribbons, or you could go all-out with statement heels or a dip-dyed dress!
DON’T…forget your surroundings
If you are planning an outdoor wedding, make sure you haven’t chosen outfits that are too chilly. You might also want to have some wellies and umbrellas on standby, just in case. If you want to hit the dancefloor during the reception, make sure you choose a dress that you can move in! And if you are getting married abroad, bear in mind the local climate and the effect that humidity may have on certain fabrics.
DO…co-ordinate your outfits
You may want to stand by tradition and wait until the day itself to see each other’s bridal outfit, but that doesn’t mean that you should be completely in the dark about your partner’s style. At the very least, make sure you co-ordinate your colours. Certain shades of white and cream don’t photograph well together, so swap fabric swatches to make sure you don’t clash. If one (or both) of you chooses to wear a suit, make sure any accent colours (for instance, a cummerbund or a pocket square) are
BUT DON’T…wear matching outfits
You aren’t twins, and you aren’t five years old.
DO…rewrite the rules
Traditionally, wedding attire means one person in a dress and the other in a suit. But same sex couples are used to doing things differently. Why not go for hers n’ hers tuxedos that you can wear again and again? Or take the opportunity to design your own outfits? Bridal style for lesbian couples is still in its infancy, so write your own style rules!
At the end of the day, a wedding is all about showing your love for your partner. It’s not about the cake, or the dress, or the number of guests in attendance. So plan the wedding that YOU want, and there’s a good chance that it may actually be the happiest day of your life.